i've just bought this:
yes, i bought it in part because upon reading the title i thought to me-self, "that's exactly what i need." i've too much the passionate attentions of uninteresting men. gawd help me it's almost as bad as the attentions of bitches. *sigh*.
a hauntingly beautiful Catalan boy has taken to hanging out at the coffee bar. my late partner was Catalan and yes, there is a "look" to them and it's hard not to stare.